Relationship Nowadays

I was watching a movie tonight everyone heard about the movie and must have watched the movie the most amazing love story Titanic; the name is enough. Everyone saw the outstanding chemistry between rose and jack. They had an endless bond, the flawless relation, they shared a emotional intimacy.
But thing that made me write about titanic is he died and after that she got married had children but never told a single word about him to the world even she didn’t shared that to her husband. Because that was hers totally hers she didn’t want anyone to know what they had what they didn’t. but now a days there is nothing as a secret, social media changed everything now a days have a boyfriend/girlfriend is a style not love, they share lust not emotions, they have hookups not relation. I am not against hookups or social media I am just against the mentality that having a partner is about looking cool in front of friends faking stories about how partner care for them is not making them cool honestly it makes you fool. Do anyone seriously thinks that the person whome you are faking your stories to don’t know the truth, guys they know that you are making yourself a bigger  fool . If you have someone, that’s great but if you don’t , that’s best. Because then you have; yourself, completely you, only you. Nowadays getting into a relationships are like changing your shoes once you post them on social media girls/guys commented on you post “wow nice one” and you, you become happy that people like your shoes you wear it more often and make them the normal like all other and then after few months you get bored of them you just stop getting comments on that and then you start looking for new one, more stylish one. That’s what we do now a days, my mom oftenly  say my aunt never saw my uncle before marriage talking is away they didn’t even saw them and now its been 35years of their successful marriage and their comes my sister she got married after 2yeas of dating and got divorced in just 6months. That’s what I mean to say doesn’t matter how close you guys are if are not made for one another stop wasting your time and life , Rather transform yourself into a successful women/men that will make you a better person for life not you ultimate timepass.